I'd like to add a little different perspective to the vaccine question, regarding whether or not children really need to be vaccinated or not. I totall respect parents decisions to vaccinate or not and it sounds like you've made some sound decisions based on your needs, but let me tell you a story that happened to a family at my church.
Several years ago, I was teaching the 4 year old Sunday School class, when one Sunday one of the boys came in with a high fever. During the service, we got his mom, and she took him home. Later in the week, it was discovered that the boy had a severe case of measles, and wound up in the hospital as a result. He gave the measles to his infant sister, who was only 3 months old. Sadly, the baby died. the little boy, as a result of the illness, is now profoundly deaf. The family, as it turns out, had not vaccinated the boy against any disease. They have since vaccinated him completely.
My point it, I would really encourage youto think twice before not vaccinating against a certain disease or using an alternative schedule...these diseases are still out there and active, and can potentially be life threatening. We can never predict when there will be an outbreak of a particular disease, and then there is nothing we can do to protect our children.
Something else to think about. There are people like myself who have serious autoimmune diseases for whom vaccinations provide little to no protection. We rely on others to be vaccinated to help us remain protected. I have been fully vaccinated, and have had whooping cough twice, both times I caught it during known outbreaks in the community. I do everything I can do remain healthy, but there are time that my best is not good enough, and I must rely on the community to help protect those of us that cannot always protect ourselves.
I'm sorry if I have offended, because that was not my intent, but I really just wanted to show another side to the vaccine debate that is not usally heard from or talked about.
Thanks.