M.H.
I had this same thing go on so what I started to was at first I took her in to her room and laid down with her in there and if she wanted to be held I could do it. Then after a few day started to back off more and more. I got a chair puting right by dd bed and sat in there for a few and read a book or play some music in the room but then I started to slow move the chair back closer to the door and now Im out of the rrom and she sleep fine all by her self in her bed. This took awhile not an over night thing but it did work for me. the only other thing I can say is do the touch love stuff and put her in the bed an walk away some time thats all it takes
I hope this helps