Development: Older Child

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Should a 6 Year Old Get Ready for School Without Reminders...

I have a 6 year old boy.. and a 7 year old girl. I work part time and have a nanny come to my house to watch the kids get them breakfast and drive them to school. Today nanny called me. She said she thought the kids were big enough to get themselves ready for school without constant reminders. She said she had a talk with them today and told them that since they were big now.. she should not have to tell them to get dressed to put their pjs away and to brush teeth and hair... etc... they should just know the routine and do it.. ...

Coping with Death

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Help-my 8 Year Old Is Very Picky About Her Food.

I have an 8 year old that is very picky about food. She either wants something different from what i've made and if not, she won't eat. I can't get her to eat veggies or healthy food. It all started one day that we were at my in laws house, and she almost vomited, ever since then, she is always saying that if she tries something new she's going to throw up. I've tried telling her to try something first, before saying she doesn't like it, I've tried the mother and daughter cook day, where we make somthing together, i've tried to hide the...

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Funeral Out of State

Need a little help here....my grandmother is currently on 24 hour hospice...

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I Have a Funeral

I have a funeral to attend this week at 10 am and don't have a babysitter....

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Crushes & Dating

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8 Year Old Crush, to Young to Have Girlfriend?

My son is 8 and has a major crush on the girl that is on his baseball team. He wants to ask her to be his girl friend, but I'm so not ready for this. I am so happy that he trusted me enough to tell me and ask me first if he can have a girl friend. I don't want my son, or my daughter, to start having girlfriends and boyfriends because I want to make sure that my children don't get to the point of relying on having a girlfriend or boyfriend for their happiness. I know from experience that it's easy to fall into. I know most parents have...

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Moody 8 Year Old

I have a second grader that has been real emotional and moody. He runs out...

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Do You Have a Crush?

I have been seeing the same chiropractor for five years. My son has been...

Growing Pains

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Growing Pains, Are They Really Painful?

My 3 (almost 4 year old son) woke up crying last night that his legs and knees hurt. He is extremely big for his age, he's 46" tall and weighs about 60lbs. He is very healthy. Is it possible for him to be feeling "growing pains" already? I do know that he's about to go through a growth spurt, but I'm not sure if that's what's causing his leg pain. He woke up this morning and says his legs are fine. What do you think? BTW - I gave him ibuprofen last night for the pain.

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Growing Pains at 4?

Every now and then my son complains that his leg hurts...usually around his...

Independence

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Is It Independence or Defiance?

Hi mamas...Ok, I have tried to write this post a number of times but I have so much to get out I don't know where to begin (sorry...and thank you in advance for reading this post and offering any words of wisdom!) My six year old daughter is amazing -- she is extremly smart, mature (well beyond her years...think 9 or 10 going on 17 ), and is totally sweet and thoughtful (but can also be completly coniveing and mean, especially to her younger sister (2.5yo). On a conscious level I am very aware of the struggle she has to balance looking...

Learning Issues

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6 Year Old Allowance

My daughter is almost 6 years old. She has no concept of money. She thinks...

Puberty

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9-Year-old Asking About Sex

My daughter has asked me what the word sex means and what sex is. She is 9. I explained to her that some questions are very difficult to answer and that I would like some time to think about it so I answer it the best way I can. She accepted that but I feel I need to give her an answer soon. Any suggestions? How much should a 9-year-old know? It's obvious someone, probably a kid at school, has used the word or talked about it. Otherwise she wouldn't be asking. I do realize she could have also gotten it from TV. We have already talked about...

Religious Milestones

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Seeking a Bar Mitzvah Mom for Advice...

My 10-year old son and I just returned from a Bar Mitzvah. We were invited from a family in Sunday School class. There are 15 kids in the class, all ages from 5-13 years old. Here's the problem: At the reception, there was a kid's table. When my son approached the table, he noticed place cards for seating. His name was not there, nor was his 10-year old friend. My son approached the Bar Mitzvah kid and he said, "I only have this table for my friends, and I didn't want you to come anyway"... Of course, this left me with a teary-eyed...

Shaving

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10 Year Old Shaving?

My 10 1/2 year old daughter recently asked when she would be allowed to shave. She has fair skin and dark hair, but I really don't think it's that bad because the hair on her legs is still thin. She is self-conscious about it though said no one has made fun of her ("yet"). I told her I had planned to wait until she turns 12 but that since it concerned her I would think about it a little more. Has anyone allowed their daughter to start shaving at 10 years old--worked out or not? Any other options that have worked out to delay shaving--i.e....

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Shaving Your Legs

How often do you ladies shave your legs? I just shaved mine last night for...

Social Skills

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9-Year-old Asking About Sex

My daughter has asked me what the word sex means and what sex is. She is 9. I explained to her that some questions are very difficult to answer and that I would like some time to think about it so I answer it the best way I can. She accepted that but I feel I need to give her an answer soon. Any suggestions? How much should a 9-year-old know? It's obvious someone, probably a kid at school, has used the word or talked about it. Otherwise she wouldn't be asking. I do realize she could have also gotten it from TV. We have already talked about...

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6 Year Old Allowance

My daughter is almost 6 years old. She has no concept of money. She thinks...

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Volunteering

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6 Year Old Allowance

My daughter is almost 6 years old. She has no concept of money. She thinks that it is ALWAYS available to her. I want to start giving her an allowance, so she can buy her own afternoon snacks at school and whatever toys she thinks she must have. My question is how much of allowance do you give to a 6 year old? What are the task she must do, in order to earn the money? What about deductions, when she doesn't do anything? Thanks for your help in advance. K.